Agh!! High school boys make me so bleeping mad!!

This guy has some out of control hormones… on top of very bad manners or low breeding in his hood.  that's so funny but not really.  We'd have epidemics of aids if he ruled the school.  He's what we call on the Internet… a pig… or a troll.
Write up some goals and be true to your own goals.  Discovering the right man that treats you with dignity and respect and can take responsibility for treating you how he wants to be treated with out being so promiscuous is worth promoting for.

True joy and happiness have value.  Sometimes we feel like goldfish but when they come to tease in a nasty below the waist manner you gotta pretend you are wearing a shark's outfit.  Its imagination.
If it happens again, tell him not to flatter himself and walk away.  Or better yet and it is worse on them, IGNORE.  That is a form of communication too.

It's been my expierence that high school boys only care about one thing. 
Girls.  

Boys are amazed by the female (especially the alluring idea of a foreign one)
We are a mystery to them. They mock what they do not understand about our appeal to them. Some of them, will do it obnoxiously as you have stressed in this blog.

You are a very beautiful young woman and with that comes the negativity experienced through immaturity and as K.E.S said hormones of young boys and even men sometimes.  

Hold your head high, Suzy and know that you are worth WAY more than that as I'm positive you do. Boys will be boys. 


The one that admires your beauty from afar and loves your intellect to your face is the one worth getting to know. All the others.. well.. sadly enough some of them never come to terms with their attractiont to us.

:)

Also, some people are just immature. I'd say believe in yourself, follow your heart and do what is right. There will always be delusional, ignorant and immature people in the word. But, high school ends and the world changes. People mature and become more interesting and tolerant. There are awesome men in the world who aren't racist and can control the expression of their ogling with a sense of respect.

So, have faith. I am betting there are even a few fellows amidst the rabble around you who have respect and restraint with women, you don't have to date them, but I bet they're there. I had a lot of male friends in high school, sure there were the crass ones too, but there were a lot of great guys. I love men even though they get a bad rap and there are some bad men out there. Hey, if you get a chance, check out understandmen.com, they have some info and workshops I wish I knew about when I was younger.

We are deffinately an interesting lot i will admit.  However, like everyone we have our maturity levels.  Just as females have their times of life where they spark men have theirs.  Biologically speaking, men are destined to live 4-8 years less than a woman, so they try to live life really fast.  That doesn't mean what the guy did was acceptable by any means, it simply means that he's following his body, not his mind. 

Age doesn't really play a factor when determining how old you “should” date i think.  Maturity does however.  I think the most attractive people in both sexes are the ones that know themselves.  they are the ones that take the time to realize why they do what they do.  These are the people who are also “ready” to date if there is such a time.  Do you think that you know yourself very well?  I bet that guy doesn't.  If you asked him what made him a man he'd probably respond with some exagerated claim about his anatomy in which case he'd be less of a man than a horse is in that case.  The point is, know yourself, and the people worth dating will notice you.

I find that it's very important to first learn to love yourself because when you do this you begin to harbor something that's worth cherishing.  Many people believe that you should love others more than yourself and our culture screams it.  We should put others before ourselves but that's not true.  When you live for someone else, you lose yourself and the quality of the gift that you share with someone also deminishes.  I pitty men like you mentioned because they will likely never know themselves and will be doomed to a lifetime of bad relationships.  Learn to grow within yourself and become who you are in a light that allows you to be free.  When you do this everyone will notice you instead of just the sleezy ones and you'll be able to see the good in many of the men that jessica above commented about. 

I don't mean to lecture or teach lessons but i've been through similar periods where i didn't think that dating was interesting or that i wanted to because the opposite gender was too immature.  Hope it helped!

Namaste,
Carl